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Friday, April 30, 2010

Words I want to say, but never will


This is the first time I have participated in the Letters of Intent blog hop.  I don't really want to complain all the time but this is a bee in my bonnet and I really want to get it out!

To you, my husbands "friend",

Yes I agreed to come and eat with you last night, it is my fault because it is not the first time I swore that I would not bring my child around you again.  I am not a racist, so your comments about black people really offended me.  Not only was I offended, but I was embarrassed as well, that table of black women behind us, one of them was a friend of mine and your words, weather she could hear them or not, were out of line.  So yes, I took my child and my food home.  I do not need to surround myself with worthless drunk men that need to run their mouths about money they "lost" because of President Obama. 

News flash idiot - he didn't tell you to miss manage your money, neither did Bush.  If you are too stupid to save some of your profits for hard times that is all on you.  It is time you (and all the other people out there) stop blaming the government for your own stupidity. (This is not my let's stand up for the government speech - I think they are all a bunch of crooks). Your money went to having 2 cell phones each for you, your wife and your 5 kids - that's a $1500 a month phone bill you brag about.  What you didn't blow on big parties and booze, you sniffed up your nose, so no I don't feel sorry for you. If you want to know why you lost your house to foreclosure, it's because you choose to go on a vacation instead of pay your mortgage, not once but several times,  again not feeling sorry for you.

Secondly, you can call me a bitch if you want to, when it comes down to me and my 11 year old eating dinner, we prefer to do it with people that speak appropriately in front of a child, and people that are sober.  Furthermore,I have friends that believe that it's okay to stand up for what you believe in, and I believe that you are an ass.

Thank you very much


For the record, I did tell him that I was leaving because I didn't appreciate his choice of words in front of my friends or my child.  I told him this as I was leaving, however some people are just too stupid to reason with.  I didn't just leave and not let him know why I was leaving.

If you have a letter of intent to send link up here.


Foursons said...

Wow, he sounds like a grade-A jerk. I'm glad you got up and left. Hopefully he'll figure out one day why you did. I think you taught your daughter a very valuable lesson.

Thanks for linking up, I'm glad to have you!

the Spocks said...

Honestly, I think many people are too stupid too buy a house. Seeing as I hear all the time that they want a nicer home than they can afford, or else they have two mortgages. UGH!

Beth said...

Good for you! Even if it didn't make a difference to him it made an impression on your child who has seen that you are willing to stand up for your beliefs!

Grabbed your button while I was here! :)

Morgan said...

Wow, good for you for putting your foot down and leaving when someone was offending you. Your a great mom for not tolerating someone talking like that in front you your child.

Rachel said...

Ouch. Racist remarks have no place - especially in front of a child. Glad you were able to say so and remove yourself and your kid from the situation. Sorry.

Double Wide Mom said...

Great JOB, Mama! Stick to your guns!!