We as women have a choice to make. "Do I want to have a baby?" That is a huge decision, and one that should not be taken lightly.
Babies are a huge responsibility. They are yours for the rest of their life, or yours which ever comes first. They are so completely helpless and need you to do everything for them. It's the hardest job you will ever take...if you choose to have a baby.
That choice doesn't happen after conception. That choice starts way before conception. The first choice is birth control. There are so many different forms of birth control, each with their own side effects and success rates. I don't know them all but I will list the ones that come into my mind first:
1. The PILL
2. The Shot
3. The Implant
4. The NuvaRing
5. The Sponge
6. The Diaphragm
7. The Condom
8. The Foam
That is just off the top of my head. I'm sure there are more, I just don't know about them. Now I know you are thinking that these are not 100%. You are right, but if you combine two of them you are covered pretty well. The Pill and the Foam, the Foam and the Comdom, the Diaphram and the condom...
That is the first step in planned parenthood, birth control.
The second step in planned parenthood is during "the heat of the moment" you make a CHOICE to lie down with that man, you make a CHOICE to share your body with him. It is your CHOICE to take off your clothes...you can choose not to....
During the course of passion you choose what you are doing, you consent and you know the consequences. So why is it that After you have made the last two choices, and you have become pregnant that NOW you want control over your body.
You could have prevented this in the beginning....but no, you didn't WANT it then..only NOW
Abortion is not planned parenthood, it is irresponsible people continuing to be irresponsible at the expense of someone else. The woman's, right to choose ends at the pregnancy. I believe that unless the life of the mother or baby is at stake (or in cases of sexual assault including rape/incest) abortion should not be allowed.
You are right, it s your body and your choice...make it in the beginning before pregnancy happens.
Thursday, February 2, 2012
Friday, January 20, 2012
I have learned....
With the new changes in my life I decided that going back to work part time was a good idea. For two reasons, the extra cash would be welcomed...and the experience would help once I finished school.
back in December I started working at an Assisted Living facility and I have learned several things in the past two months.
1. I have learned to be thankful for my husband, and cherish the time that we have together. It's no secrete that women outlive men. The ratio of men to women in this place is eye opening to say the least. On more than one occasion I have overheard conversations that the women have about how very much they miss their husbands. Their best friend, soul mate. It's heart breaking.
2. I have learned that my faith (although it is very important to me now) will be what brings me through the darkest times. Although I already have learned this lesson, working at an ALF has definitely reminded me of this. Some people have trouble remembering which way the dining area is, or their child's name...maybe they don't remember having children. They NEVER forget who God is, and every night they pray for healing.
3. Family is sometimes not there for you in the darkest moments. (Please notice the word sometimes). So many people are left at places like this and the family never looks back. It's just so sad.
4. Family is sometimes the one that fights for you like a wild animal fighting for it's own life. (So remember to be nice to the ones that you plan to leave in charge of you when you are old)
Seriously this has made me thankful for the life I have, the health I enjoy, the husband I have been blessed with, and the son that brings me joy on a daily basis.
back in December I started working at an Assisted Living facility and I have learned several things in the past two months.
1. I have learned to be thankful for my husband, and cherish the time that we have together. It's no secrete that women outlive men. The ratio of men to women in this place is eye opening to say the least. On more than one occasion I have overheard conversations that the women have about how very much they miss their husbands. Their best friend, soul mate. It's heart breaking.
2. I have learned that my faith (although it is very important to me now) will be what brings me through the darkest times. Although I already have learned this lesson, working at an ALF has definitely reminded me of this. Some people have trouble remembering which way the dining area is, or their child's name...maybe they don't remember having children. They NEVER forget who God is, and every night they pray for healing.
3. Family is sometimes not there for you in the darkest moments. (Please notice the word sometimes). So many people are left at places like this and the family never looks back. It's just so sad.
4. Family is sometimes the one that fights for you like a wild animal fighting for it's own life. (So remember to be nice to the ones that you plan to leave in charge of you when you are old)
Seriously this has made me thankful for the life I have, the health I enjoy, the husband I have been blessed with, and the son that brings me joy on a daily basis.
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